.But what Astrid doesn't realize but is a truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who possesses two children-- can easily verify: The reality that your partnership along with your moms and dads changes and grows as you both get older, and also ideally right. "Your globe centers around [your little ones] when they are actually children [as well as] it's a lot job however lovely," O'Hara mentions. "Later, you definitely overlook that, due to the fact that after that you can not obtain them to do anything you wish them to perform, given that they begin cultivating their own minds, their personal opinions." As well as ultimately, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose kids remain in their 20s and also 30s, finds herself today, capable to profit from her little ones. "They are actually just such awesome younger fellas," she says. "I'm certainly not their buddy, yet I enjoy having discussions with them as well as learning more about exactly how they think about lifestyle.".